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The Difference in Memorial Day and Veterans Day

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By Barb Carruth

Memorial Day…….. a day to remember those who gave their lives for us….Memorial Day…..remembering the ones killed in action….. like my dad’s half-brother Roy Ruffin, young, handsome, 23 years old, from Columbus, Mississippi, killed January 3, 1945, in Belgium. Uncle Roy, a member of 1st BN 502 Prcht. Inf. 101st Airborne Div. jumps from a plane, for us……that young life ended while my granny is back home in Mississippi, praying for his safe return.

As I read on the internet about the 101st Airborn Div, I found “On 03 January 1945 2nd Battalion engaged in heavy fighting around Longchamps, Belgium. The Germans pressed forward and as many as forty jumpers, mostly from F Company, were rounded up and taken prisoner that day.” He was listed on the Casualty List 22 February, 1945.

An article, my mother kept in her big “Family Bible”, tells me: “He was one of the first to land in France June 6. He fought through the Battle of Normandy and later served in Holland before going to Belgium where he was killed in the Battle of Bastogne.”

His body, brought home, laid to rest in Tabernacle Methodist Church Cemetery in Pickens County, Alabama. Each year, nieces and nephews, place flowers and United States of America flags there, not because we knew him; he died before most of us now living were born, but because we honor him and his gift.

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His mother, my “Granny Ruffin” is resting in a grave nearby….. …..when I visit …. if I close my eyes…. I can see a little petite woman…in a small bedroom, walls lined with floral wallpaper…..opening her cedar chest…..reaching inside…..taking the purple heart medal…holding in her hand close to her heart…..tears in her eyes. This, my friends is the difference in Memorial Day and Veterans Day.

Granny Ruffin

Lula Homan Woolbright  Ruffin

1887 – 1973

Woman Died Shouting at Blooming Grove



“When I was about eight years old, a woman died shouting at Blooming Grove. That was the worst excited I’ve ever been. We were in a grove meeting. The ladies and the men were separated, you know, and some of the ladies came running over to where the men were and they said Old Aunt Louisa Barnes had died shouting. Some of them said she’d just fainted, but there was a doctor there and he pronounced her dead. It’d be my guess that she was sixty or so.

Back in those days the men sat on one side of the church and the women sat on the other. Dr. John Hankins had this girlfriend in Vernon and one Sunday he went to town to get her and brought her back. They sat together in church at Blooming Grove. Well, that tore the church up. A group of the men came to my Grandpa, who was a Justice of the Peace, trying to get Dr. Hankins prosecuted for sitting with his girlfriend in church. It split the church and it took a couple of years for them to get over it. That’s the way trouble comes up, you know, over the little things.” These are the words of Thomas Hankins taken from an interview, with Rose Marie Smith, six days before his 96th birthday. Source: Rose Marie Smith Hocutt Collection History room, Mary Wallace Cobb Memorial Library Vernon, Alabama.

Thomas Jefferson Hankins, born August 20, 1884 in Lamar County, Alabama, died November 26, 1981. Parents were Samuel Houston Hankins (born 1843-died 1916) and Vicie Langston Hankins (born 1843-died 1889). He was a farmer, businessman, member of Lamar County Welfare Board, member of Tax Equalizing Board, member of Liberty Freewill Baptist Church. Source: The Heritage of Lamar County, Alabama 2000 by Heritage Publishing Consultants, Inc., and Lamar County Heritage Book Committee, pages 324-325, article Thomas and Cora Hankins submitted by Loree Christain Vernon, Alabama.


Blooming Grove Baptist Church constituted October 28, 1860, gets its name from the many blooming dogwoods in the woods around the church. The first church building was made of logs, serving both as church and school. The second building was a two-story wooden structure, also a church and school. This building was destroyed by fire in 1923. The present church was built back in the same spot below the road, near the spring, but later moved across the road next to the cemetery.

The first cemetery was up the hill on Highway 57, there is no record of the first burial. An inventory by Lamar County Genealogical & Historical Society members below gives us information on early burials:

Old Blooming Grove Cemetery Lamar County, Alabama

Number 77 on the 2002 Cemetery Map of Lamar County

Surveyed in 2005 by Rachel Virginia McReynolds and Kawatha “Kay” Chandler Koonce.

Cemetery Marker Donated by Descendants of Noah & Malinda Stone Morrison.

Grave with Cement Top (No Additional information).

Three Cement Block Markers (No additional Information).

Infant Daughters of Mr. & Mrs. Noah Morrison (Appears to be two).

Grave Marked by Fieldstone (No Additional Information).

Cornelius Holliman, Sr. – Born Sept. 25, 1792 – Died Oct. 26, 1862, PVT  S. C. Militia War of 1812 ( This is a recent marker place there by descendants ).

John Robertson – July 30, 1865 – Sept. 15, 1873

There are 7 field-stones that appear to be graves.

One unmarked grave, here,  is believed to belong to a settler passing through the area by wagon. The freshly dug grave was discovered by church members on a Sunday when gathering for their monthly service.

An attraction for Blooming Grove Church today is the free-flowing spring across the road from the church. Many travelers stop by for a drink of cold water or stop to show the spring to their children.

Source: The Heritage of Lamar County, Alabama 2000 by Heritage Publishing Consultants, Inc., and Lamar County Heritage Book Committee, pages 52-53, article Blooming Grove Baptist Church submitted by Salina Ann McDonald, Fayette, Alabama.